Quote: How do you think you have got to this point? Was there something that made you think hmmmm I really need to work on this? Was it the fact you felt like you were losing your wife? Did she like all of a sudden just withdrawl and act like this just didn't matter to her anymore she was done?
What got me to this point? My wife announced in our first MC session 6 weeks ago that she wanted a D. It sobers you up pretty quickly.
But now, there can be no physical contact between us because she says that I would only be doing it out of obligation. She is so far gone that she is not interested in me any more.
She's taken off her ring and has started looking for that new STUD! I'm so willing to work my a$$ off to be that to her but there is no more interest on her part. I even sent her an email to that affect just after the MC session. But, she just isn't interested in working on it.
Life pretty much sucks right now...because I'm working to be better for her through DB and stuff. But, it doesn't seem to be working. She is on the prowl and I'm 13-year-old carcass.
I wish I could offer better advice right now. I'm just a little in the dumps. I just caught her in a lie about where she's been...and I'm waiting for her to come home. I don't know how to handle this. So, I'm a little bit freaking out.
Maybe tomorrow, I can have better advice for you guys. K
