I have a question Keb.......

How do you think you have got to this point? Was there something that made you think hmmmm I really need to work on this? Was it the fact you felt like you were losing your wife? Did she like all of a sudden just withdrawl and act like this just didn't matter to her anymore she was done?

I guess I am searching for a way to get through to my husband. This is not something I can learn to deal with it. It is something I would consider ending the marriage over. I love him with all my heart. But it is just tearing my heart out to much. Also I don't want to end up cheating and feel like I am on the verge. I don't ever want to hurt anyone that way.