My H got angry and he is a homophobe but he is NOT gay. I am certain of that.
I have to say I never really thought he was..he does not give off that vibe at all. Having dated a man who was and is gay (before he came out, of course), I have a good idea of what the subtle and not-so-subtle signs are.
But I was at my wits' end and couldn't understand why a man with high T would not want sex. An affair? Nope. Gay? Nope. He SAID he desired me. What was the problem?
The answer, for me, seems to be not in one thing but in many things..some big, some small. Lots of layers to conquer and then onto the next thing.
You know, someday when my kids are grown and we have a Sex Stuffed Marriage, I will be bored as all get out. This has made my life quite interesting!
