Please stay and talk with the ladies here. We are sympathetic to your plight as the LD partner. So many of us find our LDH's so confusing that it would help to know what keeps you from showing your W the sexual affection she craves. I heard you say that you didn't think it was so important. What else?
If you want to know what behaviors your W is looking for - check Karen1,Greeneyedlass, Honeypot, JustJenny and several other ladies posts. We frequently daydream about what we really are looking for from our H's. Honeypot has had remarkable success in her M and her H seems to not only be coming around but enjoying the changes.
