Mine definitely has very recently. My very self-contained LDH is starting to come out of his shell and try new things, without my asking, to see what works for me.
He recently managed to give me three O's in one night and has been walking around like a proud peacock for the last 2-days! Even commented that it was really cool that he could do that for me and that it was the 1st time he's gotten me to do that more than once.
He's becoming more relaxed around the house, started having more of a sense of humor, and started to become more willing to talk about things that have been very difficult in the past for him....big changes for this guy.
It did take me getting to the point I now call "my give a damn's busted" for him to start makig some real changes. I started blatantly telling him where I stood in our R and asked him one day if he was going to wait until I actually walked out the door to do something....because if he did that would be too late. That and the fact that one day I told him I didn't trust that he really would do anything to save our M because he kept saying he would, but 2-yrs later he had yet to do anything other than small efforts. Those two simple phrases seem to have made a HUGE impact on him.
Anyway...whatever the reason I'm glad he's waking up. It's benefitting both of us!!!
Even commented that it was really cool that he could do that for me and that it was the 1st time he's gotten me to do that more than once.