I have been working at this on and off for 2-3 years. Currently have sex 5-8 times a year. I could have sex far more, all I have to do is ask. I don't want to ask anymore. I want QUALITY sex and quality AFFECTION, and that comes from desire. I am tired of her letting me use her. I want a partner that is fully into it. Has anyone actually seen the desire level in their spouse change? Has anyone with a VERY LD or ND spouse actually seen them get anywhere near being HD? If us HD's have to provide ALL of the desire, what is the point?
