Informal Survey - Has Your Sex Life Improved

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1. Has your sex life with your partner improved since you started DBing or since you read SSM?
Not at all. W is still near WAW, still pulling her ton of resentment along like a shiny red wagon.

2. How long have you been DBing or employing the techniques in SSM?
DBing for two months, working on R for four months, W was internalizing for ten years.

3. How long did it take till things improved?
Will they?

4. What was the most effective DBing or SSM technique for you?
PMA, 180, and as if have all shown some signs of working, but W seems to have her mind made up.

5. Even if it didn't improve your sex life, did DBing or SSM improve your relationship with your partner?
Not yet. I do know to avoid R talks, and DR has helped me to give her the space she needs, with out her really leaving.
I am hopeful, and I attribute some of that hope to naivety, some to the sucesses of others here and in the books.