1. Has your sex life with your partner improved since you started DBing or since you read SSM?
Definitely.
2. How long have you been DBing or employing the techniques in SSM?
Just under a year.
3. How long did it take till things improved?
It was almost immediate, but I honestly don’t know if there was any correlation. Our frequency went from every six months to once a week literally overnight. With no explanation. In fact, I even had a pretty long thread questioning why things got so much better so quickly.
4. What was the most effective DBing or SSM technique for you?
I’m not sure I can really answer this one. I don’t know that it’s a technique, but the most powerful thing for me was being able to see W’s side of things and giving up the anger.
5. Even if it didn't improve your sex life, did DBing or SSM improve your relationship with your partner?
Absolutely. There’s still a looooooooong way to go, but we’re on the road.
