Looking backward...but only to move forward THREE

[sage]

Pam,

I think it is great that you looked for the reasons that your H might be so angry other than just take it he was angry at the cat.

Believe me when I say it wasn't easy for me in the face of it!

Later on that day (Friday), I did mention it to h and he confirmed that he seemed mad at the cat but that he was really feeling guilty and mad at himself.

Sage