Hi Sage,
I don't usually get too graphic or 'weird'.

I have written, I had a sexy dream about you last night! and don't offer details unless he asks for them.

Or just simple things like, You looked really handsome last night--I can't stop thinking about you!

Would things like that work? My tactic has always been to flirt but not overwhelm him with seeeeex cause that just makes him feel icky. Keepin it light seems to strike the right balance.
I can't really say any of this helps us ML more often but, honestly, that's not why I do it. I just like expressing that side of mySELF and this offers me a nice way to do it.

Honey