Hey Sage,

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Perhaps I just felt stodgy in her presence.



Ah, once again you describe me perfectly my friend! This is how I usually feel in front of women my own age/younger than me......sigh.

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I'd love to add some flirtatious qualities to my R with h. I try (perhaps lamely!) but I don't think he views me as a bubbly sort.



Yes, same here....but....I believe you mentioned a few days ago that H called you (or was it email?) and he was a bit "racy". Could you be racy right back? How would he react?

Minnie