LnL -- The flirting stuff is interesting...I don't think of h as a big "flirter" although women do seem to gravitate towards him and he is receptive in conversation. xow was a big time flirt and it raised the hair on the back of my neck each time I was around her (even way before the bomb stuff happened). Perhaps I just felt stodgy in her presence.
I'd love to add some flirtatious qualities to my R with h. I try (perhaps lamely!) but I don't think he views me as a bubbly sort. We are affectionate with each other and we make each other laugh often...but I'd still like to add some innuendo...hmmm...what to do, what to do?
But, back to the subject at hand...h isn't overtly flirty with others in front of me and since DB'ing he's actually much more likely to seek me out in a crowded room than not.
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