Thanks for the kind wishes about my grandmother. We're in the "how can we gather up the family without making everyone crazy" mode right now. So far, we're gathering AND going crazy.
Minnie and eyes, yes, I agree it's good that I can "see" what I'm up to while I'm doing it (or semi-soon after) though I am not always to stop on a dime. Minnie, you'll relate when I say that it's definitely meditation that has helped me acquire this skill...I've gotten so used to "watching" my mind and labelling the stuff that's flying thru it "thinking, planning, etc" that in the midst of a conversation with h it's not hard for me to think "controlling" or "fear based reaction" or whatever!
h is being great. He continues to be 100% supportive AND last night he was even putting some "action plans" into place over how this will all work. I need to SLOW down and LISTEN and stop "blah, blah, blahing" and this will definitely go well!
As for the second interview, it looks like it will be Wednesday of next week. It's good because I was hoping to get a bit more time before I might have to make a decision (a bit premature! they haven't offered me the job!) so having a few extra days works out well.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
