Looking backward...but only to move forward THREE

[sage]

Had a really, really nice night last night -- it was relaxing and calming.

This winter has been awful and yesterday we got yet another snow storm with really cold temps and howling winds. My drive home was awful! When I got there, I suggested to h that we go lay down for a bit (that's all! really! though I'd definitely be up for that too!). Anyway, we just relaxed on the bed for about 30 minutes talking. when I first got home he seemed quiet and down (and I know that I was stressed!) but just hanging out together and relaxing and talking really seemed to help. He said "things always seem better after I can talk with you about them."

We made dinner together which was also relaxing. Nothing fancy at all! just some leftovers thrown into scrambled eggs. We also cracked open the new electric grill/griddle I bought and he made some steak tips. Hardly any effort at all but fun to hang out together.

We watched a bit of tv then went to bed.

I was feeling sad and vulnerable yesterday so instead of closing him out, I tried to reach out a bit. Luckily, he responded so positively that it was a great success.

I'm going out to dinner tonight with a friend. Promised h some leftovers.

Sage