I have a burning question for you. Way, way back in my early sitch I asked about the 5LL book and you suggested that I show W the KLA tapes. I plan to buy the KLA tapes for myself and see what new things I can learn about.
Question: During the separation from your H and his involvement with the OW, would there have been some impact if you had shown H the KLA tapes while he was into the OW? Would that have shortened your separation and faciliated the reconcilation process faster? Or would that have possibly pushed H further away from the M?
I am in my own world mulling over my DBing steps. I have made some slow, but positive strides with W. I see that I am in danger of rambling on here, so I'll stop right now!
