My wife has been working on this but it is looking like she has gone just about as far as she can go in this area. She is definitely not "blaming" anything on me, well, at least I am not taking it that way. I am a fairly handsome guy. It just seems like it is one of those things where she just isn't attracted to me. I have definitely known beautiful women who, for one reason or another, I just did not "click" with in a sexual way.
I don't know if there is really anything that can be done. I certainly don't want to lose a great person but I also have no desire to spend the rest of my sexual existence with someone who just "lets" me ML with her as opposed to someone who "wants" me ML to her.
