I am in the same sich. My H keeps blaming his LD on my lack of physical attractiveness. On some level, I KNOW that this isn't the REAL reason, but it can eat away at your self-esteem. It's kind of tricky too because how can you prove to your spouse that you are "good enough" looking? It's hard enough to believe this yourself. I am typing this at 3:30 in the morning because I just woke up from a PMS induced nightmare in which my H kept forcing me to look in mirrors to see how unattractive I am.
Quote: Sex is as a rule performed in the dark.
I don't think this is a general rule. I can't remember the last time I had sex in the dark. Probably the last time I went camping.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
