I feel for you. My W has all but said the same thing to me. Her actions speak volumes (sex less than once a month.) One thing I have noticed though: On the rare occasions that we do have sex, W is happy for like days afterward. Is that the case with you?
My point is this. Sex is as a rule performed in the dark. "Attraction", as in physical attraction to one's looks, is very important early on in the relationship, but later, other things become more important. If we are spending happy time together, she is more likely to want sex. Perhaps it is just to make me happy, but WTF is wrong with that?
