Meatpuppet. You might go and look at some messages by a user named "Sevens", (does anyone remember how he typed his username? I think there was an actual "7" in there).
He told his wife: "You know, you are a fantastic mother, and a great, true friend, and I'd be the luckiest guy in the world if that was all I needed, but quite honestly your lack of effort and unwillingness to compromise and your inability to find it within you to work on this TOGETHER, has led me to make the decision to leave you at least temporarily, and as sickening as that is for me to say, I know it's the right thing to do for me, right now."
I know that, temporarily at least, it shook his wife up enough to try to be more sexually attracted to him. He was, however, prepared to move out, and had already picked out an apartment. DOn't say it unless you are prepared to back it up.
That's gut wrenching, my friend. Manly hugs to you.
