Hello again all. It has been a really long time since I have been back on these boards. My wife and I have really been working hard on the issues in our marriage and, well, it really paid off. The past 6 months have been going really well in every way, except sex but even that was slowly and steadily improving.
Yesterday, my wife confessed to me that she was just not attracted to me like I needed her to be. She loves me but is not attracted to me sexually. This is exactly what it has felt like over the past 3 years but she would never admit to it....until yesterday.
Anyway, where do you go from here? Now that it is actually out, I feel as though I need to do something about it. Except for the above issue, our marriage is excellent. I just don't think I can stay in a roommate type relationship over the long haul, no matter how excellent everything else is.