Quote: That was perhaps the biggest shock to both of us...the person who didn't really want as much sex was still suffering the ill consequences of not having it. Huh!
I absolutely believe this to be true of my wife. Not only is she suffering the ill consequences of not having it, she actually seems to WANT me to WANT her ... but then not have to actually follow up on it. I think many LDs need to know they are wanted and desired; they just are having trouble following thru on doing anything about it, for various reasons (phychological, other problems in the marriage, hormones, etc.).
