Jenny, You make it worth my while to log on to this bb, girl! Sooo many funny things in your posts today..
I've bf in a car too, in the exact same manner you did. I didn't notice whether anyone got an eyeful but I'm sure they did.
I've never given a bj while driving (ok, well, not that I can easily remember anyway) but I have stroked H while driving. In fact, it is one of our fondest memories together. I haven't done any of this since we had little kids and nowadays we drive a minivan so it would be quite a reach to even get to it!
Cemar, I thought this was an excellent question. MrsNOP, your answer was great but I'm not sure it is applicable to his question. You are, I don't think anyone would argue, an ex-LD person, lol. Or, rather, it is probably true that your level of desire hasn't changed all that much, but I'll bet that your behavior has.
So a more appropriate question to you would be something along the lines of: When you and NOP weren't knocking boots all the time, what did you do to show him the kind of desire that can only be shown to HIM?
I'm just guessing here, but I suppose your answer would be that you begged him for time and attention.
I'm not sure what MrsCemar tells him and how she demonstrates that she wants him and him alone. I think he's mentioned something about quality time..?
And, yes, Cemar, before you say it...quality time can be performed with other people. You are right.
There are certain elements to having PT as your love language that quite simply suck rotten eggs. This is one of them--we are dependent on our spouses to cooperate or we go empty, day after day. Aint no arguin there.
