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OK, call me an old fuddy-duddy, but I think that ANY sex that involves the driver of a moving vehicle is dangerous and stupid. Maybe a little stroking, but nothing beyond that. It may be a great fantasy, but it's best left as just that: a fantasy.






In my defense, I should note that on the rare occasion I engage in such behavior it generally is just stroking and I've only gone beyond that in a sich in which the worst case scenario was driving into a cornfield at 5 m.p.h.. I'm such a goody-two-shoes I probably would have left the farmer money for his corn if that had happened.


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Jenny,
You make it worth my while to log on to this bb, girl!
Sooo many funny things in your posts today..

I've bf in a car too, in the exact same manner you did. I didn't notice whether anyone got an eyeful but I'm sure they did.

I've never given a bj while driving (ok, well, not that I can easily remember anyway) but I have stroked H while driving. In fact, it is one of our fondest memories together. I haven't done any of this since we had little kids and nowadays we drive a minivan so it would be quite a reach to even get to it!

Cemar, I thought this was an excellent question.
MrsNOP, your answer was great but I'm not sure it is applicable to his question. You are, I don't think anyone would argue, an ex-LD person, lol.
Or, rather, it is probably true that your level of desire hasn't changed all that much, but I'll bet that your behavior has.

So a more appropriate question to you would be something along the lines of: When you and NOP weren't knocking boots all the time, what did you do to show him the kind of desire that can only be shown to HIM?

I'm just guessing here, but I suppose your answer would be that you begged him for time and attention.

I'm not sure what MrsCemar tells him and how she demonstrates that she wants him and him alone. I think he's mentioned something about quality time..?

And, yes, Cemar, before you say it...quality time can be performed with other people. You are right.

There are certain elements to having PT as your love language that quite simply suck rotten eggs. This is one of them--we are dependent on our spouses to cooperate or we go empty, day after day. Aint no arguin there.

That's why communication is so essential.

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Technical Question...

Since one of my cars is getting quite old, what car would be condusive to receivig a BJ from W while driving? (please dont burst my bubble here, it could happen.. um really... uh huh).

Already noted on here that a Mini Van is too wide (there arent big cars only small men?). Bench Seat, Captians Chairs, cloth, leather seats?

Manual or automatic? SUV for the 'hidden look' or a low convertable (Dear playboy, I never believed the letters in here until...).

There has to be an extended warranty joke here too but it is early in socal.

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Wildebube:

WHen my wife actually had a sex drive, she did this to me several times. It was wonderful. It is this playfulness that I really miss.

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Bench seat, 3 seat belts in front, the automatic transmission up by the steering wheel. I find the Buick LeSabre ideal.


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Bench seat, 3 seat belts in front, the automatic transmission up by the steering wheel. I find the Buick LeSabre ideal.


What's your opinion on the cloth upholstery versus leather controversy?


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I hope you people are just carrying on with the joke here. Drunks, teenagers, and idiots with (or without) cell phones are bad enough, but the idea of somebody driving while getting a bj just scares the crap out of me.

Like I said, it's a nice fantasy, But it's not for the real world.

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Guys,

I hafta admit...I have done the bj thing while driving...well ok not while driving exactly, while I was the passenger (geesh what a mental image that would have been.) Anyway...for me it depends upon who my partner was at the time. In my experience some men are able to maintain while driving....others simply cannot.

There's not much chance I would attempt to do that with my current H, he's too squirmy and it would rattle him too much. With him...there'd definitely be a safety issue with the possibility of crunched metal as a result.

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What's your opinion on the cloth upholstery versus leather controversy?




Toss up. Leather is sexier but the cloth cleans easier.


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the idea of somebody driving while getting a bj just scares the crap out of me.






In my experience, it's really not any scarier than, for instance, driving while you're a bit sneezy with hayfever.


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