Okay, H is snubbing his nose at the what 4 things did you smile about yesterday idea. I do NOT know who to help him unstress..... and he is driving me nuts. He has been asking, where's the mail, where's the mail, I need to pay the bills. Okay, Monday was a holiday and it's not even the end of the month yet so maybe the bills are even here yet. But he's all up in arms ready to "pay these bills". I dont' think it's about the bills - I think it's about the fact that he is just wanting to freak out about something and he won't let me know what it is or what I can do help.
When we spoke on the phone he was also all upset before the computer printer is broke and he's "had to work on that all morning" - we learned the computer was broke since 2/14, why the sudden urgency? We never use the silly thing. And if he had something to print, just e-mail it to his mom, she'd print it for him. But he's driving himself crazy and ignoring his kids!
He wakes up everyone morning with something wrong (ie. back hurting, headache) I am trying to help him see the bright side of his days before he gives himself a freakin' stroke but he is not cooperating! HELP!