WAW says that asking the girls what they want makes then "choose between us." and that's not right. When she walked out she made them choose between us.
There is no doubt in my mind that the girls want WAW to come home so that "we can be a family" again, but WAW says that won't happen.
I have an appt w/my C tonight. This will be the topic of discussion.
This is the first time that I have challanged WAW and this is the first time she has back peddled a bit. I think that I caught her off guard. She said "See you in family court." I said OK. Later she said that she hates that we can't resove this. I agreed. Later she said she doesn't want this to turn into a court battle. I agreed.
There are several questions to consider. First and foremost how will this affect the girls in general? How will this affect the the girls' relationship w/WAW? How will this affect the A? (We have an agreement that states no contact w/OM when the girls are there.)
Thanks for checking in and offering your experience.
