Thanks for the response. I had a pretty good GAL weekend, visiting my Dad for baseball on Fri PM, D15&13's marching band show on Sat PM and football w/my brother on Sun. Got some exercise and worked around the house a little too. Nothing fantastic, but the anniversary thoughts didn't haunt me.
it's always darkest before the dawn
Well, I've seen a few glimpses of light. It's not that WAW is changing, it's that I'm dropping the rope, not necessarily moving on, but rather not getting sea-sick in the storm. Expecting the big wave and being able to ride it out w/o crashing or hurling.
maybe you could get a new counselor?
Actually, I think that I've learned much more from reading. I have a book on order by Dr. Sternburg from Yale called "Love is a story". I'm going to take a break from counseling for a while. Unless I feel like I really need it, the next time I do anything like that will be when WAW becomes a WBW or when I start a R that is leading towards M w/someone new.
