No, I have made a conscious decision not to give OW that kind of power. She is already too far into my marriage and I don't want to invite her further. Plus, I could end up looking like a psycho b*tch, which is not the impression I want to give. It might push them closer together, united against me.
I figure that she intellectually *knows* that cheating with a married man is wrong, but has chosen to ignore that clear value system. My telling her how wrong it is won't change a thing.
So, I have chosen not to. But I have been known to have some vicious words with her inside my mind.
