Back in March, I had confirmation that my WAW did not want me to go dark on her, so I thought if I did, she might pursue.
This is a good thought. I think that later on when there is interest, I could go semi-dark to see if she pursues as a way to measure her interest.
When I resurfaced, her response was relief. She had thought I didn't want to hear from her anymore.
Seems to be confirmation that there is interest!
It confirmed for me that my observation about one of her love languages being "quality time" was going to be in opposition to my being dark, and isn't that exactly how she interpreted it in a sense?
Very similar to my sitch and thoughts. Coaching WAW along with interest but not pursuit will require patience.
All the same, that one month period where I went dark and she felt I didn't want to hear from her MAY have made her reflect on that she wants to hear from me.
Interesting reversal here. I have to think that there must be a swirl of emotions and thoughts going on inside.
