She contacted me.

Sorry Jabez, you hadn't specified that the OM's mom sought you out and contacted you. I misunderstood.

This is where I disagree w/NYS. Maybe's and possibilities aren't setting realistic, concrete, achievable goals...

Here's where you misunderstood me. I never said "maybes". There are very realistic, concrete and achievable contacts that are possible, is the fuller meaning of my words to Sportster. The context in which she asked about that was in regards to may having told her she could establish contact with H from time to time using several different reasons. In other words, she will create those possibilities.

So, you now have "realistic, concrete, achievable goals"? Great! What are they? Because in all honesty, the goals you laid out in your February post seemed improbable to me, but I already mentioned that to you. So your strategy/plans have changed since then? Anything noteworthy to share?