I have a problem that I need a solution to. From my point of view, my WAW considers the apt her private residence. However, because of the kids, she has access to "our" home. The problem is that I feel she does not respect my privacy. A week and a half ago, while the kids & I were at church, she came into the house, went thru "our" bedroom to the attic to get the cat carrier and took the cats to get vaccinated. She did not tell me in advance that she was going to so this. I sent an email asking that she tell me in advance when she planned on doing something like that. Yesterday she took our oldest to the Dr. While she was in the house, she took the jello egg molds. Now I know that this may seem petty, but I feel like she should tell me that she wants something from the house, regardless of what it is. Unless it is something major, I will not put up a fuss. Do you think that my attitude is wrong? If not, how to I convey my feelings and still be DBing? I feel like if I don't say something then I' being a doormat.
