I did meet with my friend on Sat AM and I now know. I want to say that I do realize that there are situations where not knowing is better than knowing, but it is good that I found out.
I do know the OM, in fact my W & I are/were good friends w/his sister & her H. I also know his mom. Another friend of mine saw my W&OM together in a park. All of these people felt like they had a huge weight lifted from their sholders when I told them that I knew & that it would not affect the friendship that I shared with them.
So long story short, some feel that it is a one-sided affair, a "school-girl crush". The mom and sister of OM are *NOT* happy about this and the $^%+ is going to hit the fan! My plan is to sit back and watch and wait.
I am praying that the relationship of mom, sis & OM can be healed. I am praying that OM breaks it off w/my W and talks to her about seeking a R w/me rather than going off and finding a R w/another OM. I feel releived and glad that I know becuase I see God's hand at work thru my friends.
I will not be grasping at knives or anything else because my hands will be folded in prayer.
