I quite accidently found "I love you" cards back in Aug. I was calm when I confronted my W with them. Later that evening, I couldn't help myself, snooped and found a love note. It was pathetic. Something my D14 would write. I was not so calm when I confronted her w/that. She told me that she could never trust me again. HAH! I realize that this is just her MLC and I realize that this thing will crash and burn. I just have to be patient and let her learn from her own mistakes. I'm done snooping and pursuing, but knowing will "level the playing field". At least I'll know who the competition is!
