Quote: I'd suggest not snooping or spying as it can consume you and you'll lose your focus on DB'ing. It's been much better for me since I stopped spying on my W.
True. Early on I snooped to see what they were buying for each other on ebay because they were ebay junkies, and it killed me when I saw he had bought a ton of crotchless bodystockings, catsuits, see through miniskirts and the like. Ugh!!! I was devastated. Eventually I simmered down and realized sex is sex and adding spice to it didn't mean crapola, for all I knew, she was wearing that stuff for him to get excited. You'd think that would've been enough to stop me from snooping, but oh no! I revved up again at another point to see what new stuff he had bought, and it was a private auction, but from the seller's items immediately preceding and following that purchase of the OM's, I deduced it was most likely a penis enlarger. On that happy note, I decided to stop snooping
