Ioavva, It gets worse. This is the 13th hour of a roundtrip to Chicago. I wasn’t feeling well so instead of brooding at the apartment I came to the office and read an email from my lawyer. It opened with telling me he heard from her lawyer that she raided the bonus. Second was this message with the names removed “He also said that he is concerned that you are going to be angry and confront her. He asked that you not do that, and work through me.” The more I detach, the more I validate her feelings and the more time elapses the worse it gets. What kind of person who stated in the proposed settlement that she wishes an amicable settlement would behave like this? Why does this continually deteriorate? Why the character assassination? Running on Empty III