I think you might be asking her too much. It's ok to make an offer to see her, but then drop it. Leave it up to her. Don't keep checking or this comes across as pressure.
When I sent my H the text on telling the relatives, I didn't contact him again to check whether this was okay, I just left it.
When I saw him again, I didn't mention it and he didn't.
2nd time I saw him, he mentioned it and we had a positive conversation.
If you want to succeed with your DB'ing you have to do it like that. If you make an offer, leave it at that and back off to let her make the decision, or you come across as pushing.
Just saying this as friendly advice because I want you to win your W.
