Ioavva, I can't thank you enough. I've weathered the onslaughts figuring she'll come out of it. She says she forgives me and then sends my lawyer a proposed settlement. Go figure. We haven't talked since 21Feb. I haven't seen her since 25Jan. I figure it's going dark, detaching although others on this site think I should be there. I'll just go a slow as I can and put this marriage in God's hands.