Jo, I did read your sitch a few days ago. You have my sympathy for all the things that you went through. I am very happy for you as far as the "seeing your ex" goes. I can only hope and pray that it will grow to that point again with EW and I. I have a few things on my mind after last night. If she has b/f, why was she home alone at 10:30 on a sat. night. When she came out last night, she was telling me about the dinner that she and her parents had earlier that night. I am wondering if the B/F is still in the picture. I do know that they were having some probs. All I can tell you guys is that it took all I had not to reach out and grab her in my arms last night. This time there was very little contact. Not like the others. She did give me one small kiss. That was early on in the night. Even when we said good bye, it was just a hug. Previously she has been giving a quick kiss. Well, I don't know what is going on in her head. I do know that her parents are a huge influince on her. I am still pretty sure that they wanted the D. Until she learns to live her own life, this is going to take a while. Now for the reason that Friend called her last night. He says that he has a plan. He figures if she keeps comming out to see how much fun we have, then she will want to be a more regular part of it. Sounds good to me if it works. I hope that she sees how much fun I have and wants to be a part of me and my fun. Not just one of the friends. Know what I mean? Well anyways, I am now dark. Lets see how long befor I get a call. I know that she will be calling to make arrangements to see the kids this week. So I will hear from her. I wish she would call for other reasons, but she is atleast calling now. Baby steps engine, baby steps. Thanks for all the input IMP and Jo,
