Yours is a great sitch with an awesome possibility. I'm facing a likely D in the next 1-2 mo, as W has her mind set on this as her solution. Hey, I spent 6 yrs in Milwaukee - met W there.
Great move to pray and listen/wait for God's direction before a big decision. I'm finally learning that lesson. You've done a nice job of sparking the intrigue in XW again. Kids are a great link b/t the two of you. You have a wise friend there.
Think about ways to DB effectively, setting up some shortterm goals - some for the R/her and some about just you. How might things be changed for the better in your R w/ XW? And what improvements in you can you start up beginning tomorrow that will help move her from intrigue to sheer attraction, pulling her to you (thus ridding you of any need to chase)?
Sorry you're here but nice to meet you. Thanks for posting your sitch.
