It sounds like your wife had a very positive reaction to your letter. That is good.
quote: ------------- Ok, so now what, do I keep pushing for more or just let things go until after she sees the doctor? I want to encourage without letting her off the hook too easy. Suggestions? Time for accolades and romantic actions or wait to see if she follows up... -------------
I would tell her, in a matter-of-fact manner; "Thank you for addressing my concerns in the letter. I love you and I really appreciate it.".
Then give the lady some room to breathe. Treat her normally, kindly.
Remember, you are facing the problem head on. Now she is as well. You will get your turn to sit in the "oh crap" box. Treat her the same way you expect to be treated when your turn comes up :-)
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
