But wildebube, isn't that HER responsibility, to let you know if she doesn't like something that you are/aren't doing? She's an adult. Why not just operate under the assumption that you are doing everything right, unless and until she clearly states the contrary?

I have the opposite problem, of course. My W lets me know each and every thing I do that is wrong. Clearly. Unfortunately, what is wrong is EVERY THING I do. Okay, that's an exaggeration, but not much.

Hairdog