W won't talk

[cinemanymph]

You know that our SL has drastically improved in the past nine months or so and that I don’t understand it. She won’t talk, so I don’t know what’s behind the changes.

Wildeman,
Do you think that she may be improving frequency in leiu of talking? Maybe having sex is easier for her to do than talk.

Predictably enough, I’ve gotten no response. I haven’t even gotten any acknowledgement that she read it. No comments. No actions. No nothing. I know that she had some response/reaction to what I wrote. She’s sad about the wasted years, she’s angry that I brought up the past, she’s happy about the current sitch, she’s unhappy with the realization that sex really does improve the R, … I don’t know,… something. After a couple of days, she said that the girls had showed her their letters. I said, “I hope you didn’t show them yours”, and she told me that she had put it away where they wouldn’t see it. That was the first (and last) acknowledgement that she had even gotten a letter, so I was hoping that maybe she would say something about it. But that was not to be.

It must be frustrating and painful to pour your heart out and not get any response. Have you tried to bring up the letter with her?