Quote: Should I have continued probing? I got the distinct impression that she didn’t want to talk about it.
I don't think that pressuring her for more would have been helpful, especially since she has a history of not communicating. If she won't tell you how to be more of the ideal H, you're going to have to figure it out yourself. I suspect you have some ideas already.
Or maybe it is time to talk to the MC again (together), if she's willing to do that. In my case, the good news was that the W was willing to talk with the MC present. The bad news is that part of the talking was dropping the D bomb.
