wildebube wrote: ------------- I don’t know. I’ve spent nearly thirty years trying to get her to talk. -------------
Instead of asking your W what she thinks, write what you think on paper, and instruct her to place a number by each item you write about. 1=stromgly disagree, 2=disagree, 3=does not matter, 4=agree, 5=strongly agree.
You should not have to do this but it is a way to comunicate with nonverbal people. It will not give you all of the information you need, but it's a start, an ice breaker.