Akron29, I read somthing in your post that worked for you and my W had mentioned it too me, it is when you said you ignored her she started to come around. My W and I are still living together and when I really just go about my business she usually tells me like the other day she told me why do you ignore us D2. The funny thing is I didn't ignore them. I am trying to figure this out more by living together. It seems i am walking a fine line of fighting for her and not to much pressure. I too told her I will no longer be treated like a doormat etc.. and that really got her attention, but now she will say stuff like are you going to the store with us or is it making you feel like a doormat. I just don't know what to do. I will continue on. Sounds like you have been DBing very well.
