Let this one go, akron. She's right. She was lonely, and depressed, and had to go get shi!!y for a minute. You said yourself, it's something you have done too... And the Text from the OM was innocent, or at least it's not implicating. It could be thanks for anything. Maybe it's time to talk to HIM about no contact, or maybe the BOTH of them about no contact. I don't know if that's good DB'ing, maybe it's bad advice. Any other people want to weigh in?