Last night after going out to dinner and having a few drinks. W and I had a good time. Then after we get home I start a fight because my B-day expectations were not going to get met. BIG BABY. I got the famous line "You have not changed" I did say some pretty mean things, it was the drinking. She said you'll be apoligizing in the morning. I told her "No I wouldn't". Ended up on the couch. I did tell her before I went to sleep on the couch the truth, I was just being a baby because I didn't get my way ML.
This morning I called and told her I had a really nice time last night and then I blew it and I'm sorry. She said I thought you weren't going to say I'm sorry. I told her that if I didn't call and say I was sorry then there would be a problem. She was busy getting dressed and said she would call me later. I said ILU and she said ILU2. She sounded like last nights fight wasn't a big deal. I wonder what is going on here?
Communication skills are better? Me admiting that I was picking a fight because I didn't get what I wanted
She doesn't hold on to her anger like before? The holy spirit
She has realized to much work to hold onto anger?
She has realized that she Loves me?
I'm a good DB'er - I did back off last night before it got out of hand. When she asked me to go to the couch, I gave her very little resistance. Respected her wishes.
She knows that I am sorry for being a jerk? She knew I was sorry before I was ready to say it.
