I didn't know your H had moved home!!!I know you said it may happen, but WOW! I am soooo happy for you!And you are right you have been through the long haul, but you are so good at this, it worked!! I wish i had found you 6 months ago, maybe my sitch would have worked differently. How do you feel having him around now all the time? I know you two still had a realtionship, has it gotten better since he has moved back in? I don't know if I ever asked, but was there a time at the beginning where there was no contact at all? I appreciate you posting to me on recent events, and since i never got an answer from him, (like Ny & you say-no expectations, please!) I think the next contact should come from him. I am sure he will contact me for tsxes . I plan to give little to no details about my life unless asked, and even then i will try to answer him like he does to me-vague. I don't know what our odds are to reconcile a second time , and we are both different than we were last time. I know I learned so much from all of this (with help from you!) I plan to use that to make better R as friends or possible as married again. But i am sure glad it changed ME. That R was destructive to us BOTH. Don't want that ever again. Still bugs me that he wants no contact and is evasive about is plans. Like I said he is either doing something he doesn not wnat me to know about or has done sometnhing that he knows may hurt me , so he avoids me. Hard to be friends with someone who won't talk to you, eh? So i am trying to remind myself that people want something they can't have, so no mor contact from me first until he does. Have you two done anything special to commemorate the homecoming? Again I am so very happy that you two are back together, as it should be.
