Your R is really similar to mine - interesting how things work out that way.
My W and I were separated for 2 months - she left in Aug. and came back in Oct. After she got back we started ML again but she was not really into it so we stopped after the first of the year. We have only ML once since. It is really hard - how are you getting through it? Does your W have any trouble showing affection? My W says that she wants it to come naturally again - sex and affection. I think my W is having trouble with it because she was hurt by me and is still having trouble opening up. I was curious to see if you getting any of the same responses that I am getting - thanks.