Update:
Life has been very interesting. There have been many ups and downs hopefully life has settled down for now. My internet has been out for all this month and last. Some mixup with my payment.

then my son was admitted for an appendicitis and had it removed 2 wks ago spent about 5 days in hospital with him because it burst. He just went back to school this week.

many up and downs w/ OW. Hopefully finally she is out of our lives. I don't know what it will take. I have been there when my husband has told her it is over he is staying with his wife and yet she doesnt' get it. And has the nerve to call me the psycho one when I haven't even spoken or touched or harrassed her. I am the one being harrassed by her.

so hopefully we can move on and piece our lives together.
~inawe~