howdy inawe! Have not posted with you in along time! Glad your H is back, and glad you can catch yourself BEFORE a major backslide! See what you've learned!!! Proud of you! I probably should be hanging out in divorced but not done, but all my buddies are here, seperated and the affairs etc threads. My major mantra to anyone here these days is if they are still there, you've got a shot! It is soooo much harder to DB when they are not there. Seperation can work i your favor for a while, but the longer they are gone, the less chance we sometimes have. Hang in there!